Thursday, June 14, 2012

Well here goes....As this is my first Blog I am hoping that it is not too boring.  First I will start out by giving a little bio.  My name is Stacee and I am 25 yrs old.  I am originally from Cheyenne Wyoming, but currently reside in Independence Missouri.  I attended a community college in Nebraska (2004-2006) about an hour away from my home, where I played college softball for two years.  I moved to Missouri in 2007 to attend University of Central Missouri.  I lived in Warrensburg Missouri for 4 years, where I became an Alpha Phi.  I received my Bachelors Degree in Early Childhood and Elementary Education.  After graduating I stayed in "The Burg" (Warrensburg's glorious nickname) for about a year and then moved to Independence Missouri.

As a teenager and most of my college life, I was so graciously supported by my family.  Now I take a new turn in my life as a single and independent young adult in the massively scary "adult world"!  First impressions of adult life...kinda sucks lol.  Sleep, Work, Eat, Sleep Work, Eat.  That is about all I do.  Compared to my college life my routine is pretty dull.  I try to go out and meet people, but my work pretty much consumes me.  Fortunately I am lucky enough to love my job, my coworkers, and the children I work with everyday.  I am not sure how I would deal if I hadn't found this amazing job.  I am so thankful.

Change has not been something that I have always been gracious and accepting of in the past.  Now I face one of the biggest changes I will encounter.  I have always lived with a roommate and now I face living alone.  First impressions of living alone....NO WAY NOT FOR ME.  I am a very social person and need interaction.  Living with many different people has taught me a lot about myself as well as how hard it can be to live with a roommate.  When I decided to stay in Missouri, I made the leap to move out of my college town and begin my post college life.  Now it is a year later and an even bigger change stands boldly in front of me.  Honestly I am terrified.  Through my experiences with change so far I have learned that in the end I have always been grateful and happy with my decisions.  So I am going to face my fears and embrace the change that stares me right in the face.  I still have a little over a month to go so I will keep you posted.  One thing that I have learned so far is that I have more friends than I thought I did and a more than supportive family there to support me!!!

I really want to use this blog to express how I am feeling and connect with others that may feel the same whatever life may bring.  I have decided I should make a list of bog subjects I would like to take on.

1. Living Alone
2. The Single Life
3. What Is Love and How to Acquire It.
4. Weight Loss/Healthy Living
5. Faith/Beliefs
6. Living with Anxiety
7. Budgeting Money
8. Life After College
9. Teaching
10. Finding True Happiness.

These are just a few things that have been on my mind lately that I seem to be stewing over.  I figure with an outlet like this I may be able to concur some of my biggest fears and find confidence in my self through the thoughts and experiences of others.  I hope I am doing this right, I figure there really is no wrong way.

I will end this blog post with a question:  If you have ever lived on your own what were your biggest fears and how did you cope/deal with them?

TTYL
SA         

2 comments:

  1. I had a roommate back out on me in college leaving me on my own. I was hard at first (I never thought I would live by myself). For some reason showering was my hardest thing. Not that I showered with my roommates, it was just comforting to know someone was there. :) It was weird living and sleeping in a town house by my self but I learned to love it! I never had to tell anyone where I was going and when I would be home. And any mess that was there was my own. It was a lot cleaner :) It was hard to get used to but I really enjoyed it after awhile! Hope this helps :)

    ReplyDelete
  2. Thanks so much for your comment! This is my first official comment :) Anyways I really appreciate your insight. I am glad you didn't shower with your roommates seeing as though that might have been a little odd lol. I have always been a baby about being by myself so that is gonna be the biggest adjustment. The good thing I have just a little bit of experience under my belt seeing as though my current roommates and I are very busy and I find my self home alone a lot. I remember being afraid of staying home alone when I was kid and when we got a dog it really helped so I have been considering getting a pet it just depends on how expensive it will be. Thanks for the insight hopefully things are going well with you. Thanks again for being my first comment! TTYL

    ReplyDelete