As a teenager and most of my college life, I was so graciously supported by my family. Now I take a new turn in my life as a single and independent young adult in the massively scary "adult world"! First impressions of adult life...kinda sucks lol. Sleep, Work, Eat, Sleep Work, Eat. That is about all I do. Compared to my college life my routine is pretty dull. I try to go out and meet people, but my work pretty much consumes me. Fortunately I am lucky enough to love my job, my coworkers, and the children I work with everyday. I am not sure how I would deal if I hadn't found this amazing job. I am so thankful.
Change has not been something that I have always been gracious and accepting of in the past. Now I face one of the biggest changes I will encounter. I have always lived with a roommate and now I face living alone. First impressions of living alone....NO WAY NOT FOR ME. I am a very social person and need interaction. Living with many different people has taught me a lot about myself as well as how hard it can be to live with a roommate. When I decided to stay in Missouri, I made the leap to move out of my college town and begin my post college life. Now it is a year later and an even bigger change stands boldly in front of me. Honestly I am terrified. Through my experiences with change so far I have learned that in the end I have always been grateful and happy with my decisions. So I am going to face my fears and embrace the change that stares me right in the face. I still have a little over a month to go so I will keep you posted. One thing that I have learned so far is that I have more friends than I thought I did and a more than supportive family there to support me!!!
I really want to use this blog to express how I am feeling and connect with others that may feel the same whatever life may bring. I have decided I should make a list of bog subjects I would like to take on.
1. Living Alone
2. The Single Life
3. What Is Love and How to Acquire It.
4. Weight Loss/Healthy Living
5. Faith/Beliefs
6. Living with Anxiety
7. Budgeting Money
8. Life After College
9. Teaching
10. Finding True Happiness.
These are just a few things that have been on my mind lately that I seem to be stewing over. I figure with an outlet like this I may be able to concur some of my biggest fears and find confidence in my self through the thoughts and experiences of others. I hope I am doing this right, I figure there really is no wrong way.
I will end this blog post with a question: If you have ever lived on your own what were your biggest fears and how did you cope/deal with them?
TTYL
SA
I had a roommate back out on me in college leaving me on my own. I was hard at first (I never thought I would live by myself). For some reason showering was my hardest thing. Not that I showered with my roommates, it was just comforting to know someone was there. :) It was weird living and sleeping in a town house by my self but I learned to love it! I never had to tell anyone where I was going and when I would be home. And any mess that was there was my own. It was a lot cleaner :) It was hard to get used to but I really enjoyed it after awhile! Hope this helps :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for your comment! This is my first official comment :) Anyways I really appreciate your insight. I am glad you didn't shower with your roommates seeing as though that might have been a little odd lol. I have always been a baby about being by myself so that is gonna be the biggest adjustment. The good thing I have just a little bit of experience under my belt seeing as though my current roommates and I are very busy and I find my self home alone a lot. I remember being afraid of staying home alone when I was kid and when we got a dog it really helped so I have been considering getting a pet it just depends on how expensive it will be. Thanks for the insight hopefully things are going well with you. Thanks again for being my first comment! TTYL
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